Love Life

Personal and professional advice to help you navigate your love life.

What is Worth Fighting For?

Where do you need help the most right now?

Saving My Relationship | Moving On | Finding Love Again

Do You Want to Save Your Relationship?

Relationship Coach Brandi Kiana-Jo

When disagreements become fights, and the constant miscommunication creates distance, you wonder if it’s worth saving. Things aren’t like they used to be, and you start to feel like you’re failing in your relationship.

You want to know where things went south. You want to know how to fix it to be happy again.

My coaching style is for individuals or couples who want to improve their relationships. However, I don’t need to meet with both of you to help you improve your relationship. If only one person wants to work together, transformation of the relationship can still occur!

On average, after coaching individuals who were already married, I’ve helped them strengthen their relationship, increase their emotional and physical intimacy, and protect their marriage from divorce, separation, and infidelity.

I will be a listening ear to help you let go of your burdens, and I will give you tailored material and exercises that you can do with or without your partner. These exercises will help you understand yourself and your partner on a deeper level. I will guide you in our sessions on how to nourish your relationship and rekindle the connection. From all the relationships I’ve coached, this usually takes 3 months to a year. Schedule a one-on-one consultation, and we’ll see what programs work best for you and your relationship.

Are You Struggling with Moving On?

hawaii relationship coach brandi kiana-jo

When you’ve given so much to someone you fell in love with and your heart is shattered in pieces because your ex made their decision to move on, you feel left behind.

You’re confused about how to move forward because you don’t want to force something that isn’t meant to be, but you feel stuck.

You want to find the will to move on even though it breaks your heart. You want your strength back. You want to understand what it is you’re missing or why things didn’t work out the way you thought it would.

This is one of the most devastating times of your life, and I’m here to help you navigate your thoughts so you don’t self-sabotage. I’m here to help you bounce back stronger than before so you can be confident, resilient, and understand your worth. I’ll give you exercises to help you release and mend those core wounds. From the students I’ve coached to help move on, this typically takes 3.5 months or less than a year. If you are still in contact with your ex, this could take a year, depending on your involvement with your ex. Schedule a consultation now so I can help you understand the steps you can take now to improve your situation. From there, we can review the programs that would best for you.

Do You Want to Find Love Again?

Hawaii Relationship Coach Brandi Kiana-Jo

You have been single for quite some time and doing well on your own, but something is missing in your life; perhaps it’s a partner with whom you can share new experiences.

You’re not getting any younger, and you want to get the most out of life. You are ready to start anew and see what’s out there again. However, it’s been so long that you’re not sure how to date or get back into the swing of things since things have drastically changed over the years.

Dating isn’t what it used to be and has changed significantly for every generation. I’ve coached people in relationships from teens to 70 years old with different cultural backgrounds, social statuses, and spiritual beliefs. Because of social media, the dating scene can be very confusing and intimidating. This is where having a coach can help you save time and embarrassment.

I’ll give you sound advice tailored to you and exercises to help you build confidence, know what to say, and how to attract and breathe love into your life. On average, after coaching singles in their love life, they’ve found their long-term partner just 3-7 months later. This long-term partner has evolved from dating to engagement to getting married.

If you are ready to meet someone you would love to start a new adventure with in terms of dating that could lead to a lifelong commitment, then schedule a consultation so I can help you immediately. From there, I’ll provide recommendations for programs tailored to you.

You are ready if…

you want help in relieving stress

you don’t want to waste anytime

you want to make a positive change in your life now

you want to work with someone who can support you when opening up about your challenges

you want to work with someone who can support you in feeling confident about your decisions

My coaching will be perfect for you if…

you want to receive advice on how to overcome challenges immediately

you are open to trying new strategies and techniques that will help you understand, connect, and communicate with your current, new, or potential partner

you want to apply practical steps in creating compassion, chemistry, and fun in your love life

you want to develop an honest relationship with one coach with whom you can talk about intimate experiences without feeling judged

you want to accomplish more by working with one coach who will work closely with you (and your partner) throughout your journey so you can get results

If this sounds like you, schedule your session now

Real People, Real Growth

“She offered a number of ways and exercises that I have not exercised before, things that I can apply to my life and my family’s life. Very useful tools were given.” - Rayna

“Working with a life coach has probably been the best thing that I’ve ever done, next to getting married and having kids.” - Raymond

“Working with Brandi has truly been a wonderful experience. I feel really taken cared of and supported. She was always there, felt like night and day.” - Jackie

Advice for Your Love Life

When you've lost the flame in your love life, and you're looking for ambition and ways to revive the joys of love, sex, and partnership, I'll give you exercises to find your spark. Book a session to move passed the worry and concern and into clarity and fulfillment.